Here are some signs to look out for. Over the last couple of weeks I have come to find that I have quite strong feelings for her but I am unsure of how to proceed or whether it is even something that I should follow up on? it will just keep this ridiculous argument going on and on and she won't ever change her mind :) how about next time you are going to say night to her stop your self, smile at her and say "goodnight" like she wants. My dishnet only has good signal at night with wifii. Open up your romantic side, pick out a flower for her, buy her something that reminded you of her, take her to things she likes, write her notes by hand. If they tell you about guys they like, most likely they see you as a friend. She'll get the idea and warm up to you if she's interested. There are other people who can have deep and meaningful conversations with you and have the time to invest in you. I think that’s the … Women don't typically do that. Nope, no difference. My girlfriend is always complaining that saying goodnight is sweeter then just night and I get her point but to me it's the exact same thing and when I say night I mean goodnight. Tell her that you are interested, but not going to force it on her. However over the past week she seemed to initiate a lot of the conversations and sometimes messages me telling me to have a great day. she said she can come see me in the weekend. But I guess I’m asking. If she tries to hang out, she or I cancells and immediatelly proposses next week. Let her know you are open to what she wants to try. You should keep talking with her, try flirting a little more. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on May 20, 2017: I think she's interested. I told her I'm in oklahoma city, i'll ask my father, and he was undecided. If she calls you out for something or playfully teases you, she's comfortable with you and may be being flirty. I’m basically looking for confirmation here and one of your glaring insights that I have to be overlooking here. Unless he confronts u with asking u to send him a pic or says something obviously sexual, I wouldnt take it that way. We were still waiting when she asked me if I wanted to se her room, I obviously said yes and went to see her room. You're one of the few people she thinks will be handy in a situation that takes problem-solving, whether killing a spider, finding her keys, or comforting her when she is sad. 30 minutes to an hour... is a good turn around time. Almost all her texts end up having a laughing emoji or an lol at the end of it, sometimes even 3 plus emojis. Any help is appreciated! I have continued texting her however and she still texts me basically all day every day and she will still text me late at night.Thoughts? . I know I need to cut all ties. If she posts pictures on her Instagram, count the amount that are related to you. She may initiate several conversations, though this will frustrate her because she will think that you don't like her if you never initiate. We chat every day almost and on-off all day especially at night. She always reply me at late night also. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on April 22, 2017: Sounds like early stages of a romance. Was that really just a picture of puppies? I could do all or most of these actions with just a friend to be honest. If a guy says this, he might actually mean it… as in it’s not you, it’s him because he’s a huge douche who’s too chicken to actually tell you what he’s feeling. Me and this girl have been really good friends for a while (We're both High School students as well), and we talk all the time. I've been friend with a girl I like for 7 years. Anyways please help me I really need to know how do I know if she likes me back? She tells me about her problems i try to comfort her.. and it seems she really cares since for example she tells me to "go eat something for god's sake" when i haven't eaten in like 2 days. PD. It’s a little reminder that you are still hers and … Here are some signs relating to not what she texts you, but when and how often. A general rule is: the more time she spends on a text for you, the more she cares about you and about what you think. Women drop hints about what they want to do with you. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on January 13, 2017: I think you should move on. Help, I am a girl but girls are still confusing. I'm looking for having a longterm relationship with a girl, I met online. I have been introduced to the family, friends and the kids at various times since i have known her. But basically, we started texting again. If there's an overabundance of smileys, exclamation marks, and overall excitement, that's also an positive sign. So i was going to go fishing with a girl but I found out from my friend that she wasn't aloud to date but she sent me a text saying her friend wanted to fish with me. I usually don't recommend it and try to push people to find something else that's better suited and gives you everything you really want. There's this girl I've known for several years now and we recently reconnected. Please. Keep this in mind! But my philosophy is if you're getting a response and constant communication, you are are in good shape. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on October 28, 2019: This may just be the way she communicates with messages -- she takes her time and likely is doing several things at once. Be open minded, say you are willing to learn, and the last thing you want to do is hurt her feelings. You’ll always get the same answer. But I couldn’t focus on anything else for the last 5 months, I appreciate this, I hope you're right and my gut tells me I am too. What do I do ? But chances are, if she's letting herself get that close to you, she probably likes you as something more. What do you think? So I kinda like this girl and I read this article a bit and she does a lot of these things. I wrote her she was beautiful and I was glad she accepted to be my model and I think she blushed. And a few days later I texted her again asking if she she could fish next weekend and she said she thinks she can and said the first girl I asked was free to. They will try to figure out some sort of pattern. The more you talk, hang out, the more she will open up. ;). so there this boy and i really like him and it seems like he likes me to. So I've been texting this girl for about 6 or so months now.. it might even be a year, but I haven't really been paying attention. Its more random rather than something usual, always after I wish her a nice trip or starting a conversation. Get her candy, chocolate, jewelry. Relevance. I say keep talking to her and flirting. These are open-ended interactions that create an opportunity for you, If she says she is busy, more than likely she'll try to schedule you in at another time right then and there. She makes work excuses, or hangs out with her friends or with her family; and she never propose another day to hang out. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on September 16, 2017: Emojis are positive interactions. I think you guys have a strong enough friendship that you can talk to her and tell her that you do have feelings for her, and that it is okay if she does not, whether she ever does or eventually does.... you are there for her. We text a lot and sometimes she texts GIPHYs or stickers on Instagram. In the last six months we have started spending more time together again, going for walks or out for coffee and trampolining, never as dates, just as friends. This week she always sits by herself if I'm there first, if I get there last she is sat with our friends as normal! How this ties into your text article. If she has lots of pictures with everyone, then this isn't as accurate. If she texts all your guy friends a whole lot, then she is either a big texter, or is hoping one of you will get the hint. BECAUSE SHE CARES. But after that the first girl started sending me selfies on Snapchat and idk what that's suppose to mean. Is that texting is obviously our main form of communication. That's where you go from here. How often does she text you? I told her that I wanted to hang out with her for almost 3 weeks now and she has time to hang out with her friends, go to concerts, hang out with someone (most probably a guy) and a friend who is currently on town. I have no short-term goals with this girl. How should I take this, and how should I react? I thought her thumb must of slipped or something but she's done it MULTIPLE times. Me and this girl been talking for a while now. What do you think? If she sends you poetry, such as haikus, she is trying to have fun with you. Don't push so much pressure on a relationship, or her, or yourself. If she greets you through text in another language (in german or french)? A girl can't be polite? Same goes with what colors suit her, which of her outfits you like best, etc. Noto 4: I used to text her like every week and then I stopped because she went cold. A girl who keeps beating herself up on her looks, not only is she fishing for a compliment, she’s fishing for YOUR compliment. Then we texted random gifs to each other. If a woman texts you when she is sad this can go two ways: 1.) On the texting, last week she was very responsive, sending many mesages to my questions, even with some gaps between her messages (she texted me twice, then waited 10 minutes and texted me again). When it becomes only a means of contact and sorting affairs, you're getting dull. If she mentions something that could be an activity, she's trying to gauge if you would like to do that activity with her. She has a problem...that's not something to argue over.. some girls are so picky and demanding and criticize people on the littlest things. These are positive signs, but not necessarily meaning she likes you. Hi Andrea, met a girl at a party, she asks for my snapchat, didn't talk to her for a month or so. I told her to know that i'd miss my own graduation for it. Try to get to know her more. Life is short. See more. then she said oh. Though this usually means she’s interested in you, she could just be looking for attention. If you feel comfortable, you should ask her what she thinks of you. She never proposes another date, she jyst cancells and tells me she has a very crazy schedule. There is potential here. So this may be the only plus point for me, but she doesn't knows about that. Here are some signs that will help you figure out if she'd like to do that, too, and if she is using text messaging to try and find a way to spend more time with you. If when ever I say “kill me” or “OMG I want to die” she says “nOOOO” what does that mean? She liked my posts and bragged about that (now she doesn't do it anymore), and also brags frequently (she is the best cousin, she never gets angry, etc). If she does, this is a telltale sign … I need some help. I think getting too attached to this person could be bad for you, and you deserve a more healthy relationship that isn't founded on secrets, an affair, and the like. For example, "Do you like bowling?" All that jazz. He shares his personal life with me and comfort me during my hard times. She facetimed me 2 days in a row. It's either, she has shaky thumbs or she's doing something a rather (FYI: she knows I like her), and I REALLLLY need some help with understanding what's going on. She didn’t said boyfriend cuz here in Czech Republic we also say male friend and female friends as friends and we say boyfriend and girlfriend as someone to love. She may not be sure how to get you to talk. I’m so stupid! And It’s Also Kind Of Scary. Two days after that she texted me to ask me about my sports team. But then after the third guy hurt her, she came back to me and started acting like this. Also, I am really good at negotiations, as far as I know. I'm talking to this girl and for a week we talked in the phone for 5 hours every night and we talked her day flirted all that it wasn't one sided either. Eventually I learned she liked me for about a year and a half.. just up until she met the other guy. When a guy says, “I miss you,” does he really mean it? The more interactions and so forth, the more likely it leans toward a romantic connection. When we're not staying up late, it's because she falls asleep early while talking to me. Obviously, this stuff would be beneath them. Lachlan Richardson on September 06, 2019: There’s this girl that I’ve been talking to on Snapchat. She wasn't angry at this, rather consoling me that I shouldn't apologize and not feel bad, and told me that it's OK, and relax. I asked her what would she want for her gift, she said just something sparkly. If she says, "EWWWWW!" Any help? Girls may get weird or shy away if you become too overt or sexual. Do not immediately think she is annoyed. She tells me all of her problems and she feels like I’m the only one that could help her and I do. I gave her some earring of my own design. Do you think I am mis-reading that she has some sort of attraction towards me? Timing and context are all important when figuring out text messages. She liked a couple of my pictures on Facebook during our convo and we had really good banter and she kept the convo going when i was going to go to sleep. Now we are left to ask: What does it mean when a girl says it? She texts me everyday, she sends me over 70 text replies per day, and she texts me until about midnight every night. If you are getting a lot of texts in a week, month, year, two years—try thinking about all of it together. Women generally hate receiving these and think something is wrong or you're just not interested. If she sends you pictures of other stuff, she's saying "This reminded me of you," or she simply likes you so much that she wants to share fun moments with you. Instead, she's checking in on you to see how you're doing and see if she can do something about it. Does she like me. Watch your own patience. I am 22 years old and is it too late for me to start going clubbing/party (girls night out) ? I invited her to the movies once and to hang out another (about 4 months ago) and she went those times.She even texted me saying she enjoyed those, but after that she always have another plan. So is saying night honestly that bad to you girls? But that s just me, like I said its more of a preference thing. When a girl really, really likes you she will text you a lot. Can't be friendly if she doesn't likes you as something else? Romantic. he texts me like really fast or waits a long time to respond. Girls are more sensitive in some ways about language, so consider the possible effect of an innocent innuendo about 5Xs before sending. Right after that conversation was over she asked if I could come to her birthday party. Before the night was over, she had invited me to 3 more things. Night just doesn't sound as "loving" as you say. Do not share pictures of her with your friends ever. Can you say good night my boy or is that grammatically incorrect? My girlfriend is mad at me because I hung up the phone before she did? Flat-out forgetting several times is weird. Slowly increase the texting. honestly lol, i rather a guy say goodnight to me. i mean i guess to her saying "night" is like saying "ily" instead of i love you lol. She also sent me pics of her and I did the same. What's your opinion? She had posted her approx. This girl reads the message leaves me on seen and then replies. It depends on the context. He likes to randomly send pics of his face and its really cute. It’s a shame and truly something that messes with the heart on the other end, but to help reduce the risks of being played into a fake love, we are going to give you the three top reasons a man might say ‘I love you’ without meaning it. The more the better. Also, how can I tell if she likes me as a friend or more, if she calls me a friend but uses some of the cute signs, and I’m not a guy? I guess i have been spamming her but she said today she will text me later but i havent had any word from her. If she texts you to see if you are going to a party, she more than likely wants to go with you or see you there. I didn't replied and the next day she sent me more pictures of the place and one of her. Lately she’s been texting me more than usual, she’s the one initiating the conversation and responds quite fast, although she stops repliying if I try to keep the conversation going. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on July 01, 2017: Proposing like engagement? Sometimes this is what women are really feeling and they try to tone it down so you won't run away. Girls keep their business private when they think they might have a chance with you. What does it mean to reply after leaving me on seen. We text everyday; In the morning she says gm and asks me what I'm doing, then after school starts talking with me and even at night we talk.. a lot. With each 10 responses given in a day, the bigger the chance that she likes you. Honestly, I think "night" vs "goodnight" is just a personal preference. I think she is very confussed since her breakup. After that we text everyknow and then but we usually just talk at school. Favorite Answer. If a use correct grammar with you I must see you as something else than a friend? If she writes to you talking about her day, she likes the attention you give her and she wants to open up to you. The last one (and also the worst) she tried to pair me with a girl she didn't know in a bar. She said that bc I'm so nice to her and always there for her, that really made her happy and made her like me.. We don't send ;) faces or send a lot of pictures (unless like snapchat), and we may not "hang out a lot" in person but we can talk for hours.. sometimes we just pull all nighters talking to one another.. She says I'm one of the few she can trust and that she doesn't know where she'd be without me.. My point is we talk all time.. Be sweet. I really like this girl, but has a boyfriend. Andrea Lawrence (author) from Chicago on February 18, 2017: She sounds super flirtatious... and in general. Away if you need to communicate with each 10 responses given in romantic... 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